Sadness comes to me this Thursday. My neighbor and yard man's wife (which I'm also close friends with) has been diagnosed with Cancer.. She has a spot in her liver, breast and pancreas.
She and I became good friends through our Needle Craft group. She has been having lower back pain for almost a year and going to doctors and no one has given her any reason for this pain.. Even went to a Chiropractor, even had massages done...nothing seem to relive her pain.
Since I went back home in August, she still hadn't had any relief..only till a few weeks ago, she wound up with not feeling well to her stomach. Could hardly eat and then started coming down with a cold.. Legs began to swell and she could hardly catch her breath..
Her husband took her to the hospital and she was in Congestive Heart Failure and had Pneumonia... I came in and called to talk with my Yard man and that's when he told me she was in the hospital.. I called her and was joking with her and told her, "Stay in till they tell ya what the heck is wrong with you" I thought to myself.. Maybe now she'll get the right answers..
Well, today I got those words I didn't want to here...It hit me hard, as I can remember thinking, "Why can't anyone find out what's wrong with her "..Now I'm praying and hoping that it isn't too late...
We never seems to think a few pains here or there could mean something.. and if it goes away.. well, I'm OK...Could there have been maybe something someone could have done to prevent this from happening.. ? I seem to always ask these questions...and lately that's all I hear.. Someone just being diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer...
I'm at a loss right now, as she is such a neat person and I so enjoyed joking with her...and even her work.. her crocheting was a beauty.. We'd always ask, "What are ya gonna do next" and search for neat projects...
I pray she can beat this... that maybe again she's misdiagnosed..
Elsie and Clancey you are in my prayers !
So sorry to hear about your friend. I hope she gets some good medical care and that they can alleviate her pain. Are you going to be able to spend any time with her?
ReplyDeleteAli, I hope I can.. She and Clancey live on the right side of me .. the way our homes are set up... I will call again in a few days as her family will be coming in. We just never know what is thrown our way...
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words...God Bless