Wednesday turned out to be a difficult day

Wednesday turned out to be a difficult day...it started off as I thought not so bad...morning was normal..well for me some what normal...Diane was due to come over and we were going to clean the carport furniture...and sure enough she's on time and I had already pulled my car back so we could set the furniture in the drive way..

Yep, Diane had her bucket and mask..as the stuff she uses has a pretty strong odor and it "does the job"...and away she went...She gets right into action..God Bless Her !!

During which time my phone started ringing....Did I ever mention that Weddings and Funerals bring out the "Best of the Best of the Worst of People"...well it does and did...That simple ain't no way of getting around it with out putting it out there !

Seems my Sister's X...(the man that treated her like chit all her married life) decided he wanted a private viewing...Yep, you are reading that correctly...and I almost came undone... I mean he divorced her when she was not even aware of who anyone was...and all her married life she was treated lower that low...now he wants a private viewing...

Last thing my Sister said to me was, "I never want him to come to my funeral"..this was when she was able to speak ..She feared him all her life and now in the end this S O B wants closure....GOOD LUCK!!!!

The calls came in all day and all night and we even had the funeral director involved..now what surprised me the most...(get this)  The funeral director said, "Don't be embarrassed, this is something we come across a lot"...HOLY MOLLY.

I could not believe this happens often...when someone is grieving...I just can't imagine it...but he did assure me ..so I have to believe...well to cut to the chase all the Sisters have been fighting ...and it's been a mess...and all I can think of is my poor Sister couldn't even leave this world in peace...

After all day "War of the Roses"...the best for every one's peace of mind and well being..we agreed to let him have a 10 minute visit and be escorted out...and Why you ask?????...This man is evil and is vindictive to the point of flattening tires, putting sugar in your gas tank.. I could go on...Yes, he's immature and is one of those Control Freaks and enjoys Intimidating...

For me I'd not have a problem having his ARSE arrested...and I have no love loss if they put him away and through the key away too...but for my Sister and the Family (hers) I have to try and give peace and have her buried without a mess and fight ..She doesn't deserve that at all....

So that's been my Long, Long, Long unwinding day ...and if that's not enough one of the Sisters got so upset she had to be taken to the hospital...thinking she might have had a heart attack...and I'm waiting by the phone to hear the results...

Again my prayer beads will spin in double time...cause this is like a freakin' Soap...I mean if someone called me with this story...I'd ask ..."Who do you think is gonna believe this " ?....and now I even feel worse for my Sister..as she lived this nightmare...

God Bless You Alice...I'm just sorry I couldn't grant you your wish...but I'm trying to get all the Sisters to not fight...and be together for YOU..